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<span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: 新細明體, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">美國暢銷經典小說及電影《<b>麥迪遜之橋</b>》</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">里,羅伯特·金凱問了家庭主婦弗朗西斯卡一個問題:</span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">乾淨,做人最高的境界</span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">那些乾淨的人,往往在經營自己的家庭上也有非凡的智慧</span></strong></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">當你有一個乾淨的內心,知世故而不世故,你的境界自然會提升。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<hr>智股網-知識就是力量http://www.blogger.com/profile/11093359592388146038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7917549547631597439.post-69530485179981885582018-02-08T18:50:00.001-08:002018-02-08T18:55:03.000-08:00我們為什麼要努力?這是讓我印象最深的回答<div id="fb-root"></div>
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<span style="font-family: , serif;">今天上網在某論壇看見一個問題叫做:“我們為什麼要努力?”裡面網友回答眾說紛紜,而讓我印象最深的,是有位答主所說的一句話:“最痛苦的事情,不是失敗,而是我本可以。”</span></div>
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<hr>智股網-知識就是力量http://www.blogger.com/profile/11093359592388146038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7917549547631597439.post-36013642966309506502018-01-19T00:00:00.001-08:002018-01-19T00:34:07.202-08:00心靈的品級<div id="fb-root"></div>
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Doren</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">)。范多倫不但出自書香門第,本來還是美國哥倫比亞大學一位明星教授,後來因為參加電視益智節目太受歡迎,接受主辦單位喂題作弊,被學校解聘,轉而被艾德勒找去一起工作,並一起大幅修編增寫了《如何閱讀一本書》。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US">4.</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">判斷作者寫這本書的宗旨,並且能公正地評斷,表達自己的同意或反對。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , serif;">人之長相,分體貌和心靈。</span></div>
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<b><span lang="EN-US">1. </span></b><b><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">會說話是一門學問,有分寸是一種修養。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">這就是所謂的</span><span lang="EN-US">“</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">相由心生</span><span lang="EN-US">”</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">日本文學家大宅壯一說:</span><span lang="EN-US">“</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一個人的臉就是一張履歷表。</span><span lang="EN-US">”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span lang="EN-US">3. </span></b><b><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">善良的人,根本不會吃虧。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">女老師看老人可憐,沒兒沒女,只靠幾隻雞養活自己,於是每個蛋多給</span><span lang="EN-US">5</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">分錢,這老太太可憐,女老師就做一個小施主吧。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span lang="EN-US">4. </span></b><b><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Helvetica; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">知世故而不世故,歷圓滑而留天真。</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b><span lang="EN-US">5. </span></b><b><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">讓人舒服,是一種頂級的魅力。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">《菜根譚》:</span><span lang="EN-US">“</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">處世讓一步為高,退步即進步的張本;待人寬一分是福,利人實利己的根基。</span><span lang="EN-US">”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">著名文學家馬克</span><span lang="EN-US">·</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">吐溫有一次去一個小城,臨行前別人告訴他,那裡的蚊子特別厲害。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">馬克</span><span lang="EN-US">·</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">吐溫卻滿不在乎地說:</span><span lang="EN-US">“</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">貴地蚊子比傳說中的不知聰明多少倍,它竟會預先看好我的房間號碼,以便夜晚光顧、飽餐一頓。</span><span lang="EN-US">”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一個人真正的資本,不是美貌,也不是金錢,更不是學問,而是自帶的,不會隨著歲月變遷而消失的</span><span lang="EN-US">“</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">精神長相</span><span lang="EN-US">”</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<hr>智股網-知識就是力量http://www.blogger.com/profile/11093359592388146038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7917549547631597439.post-41113569678630298842018-01-14T21:56:00.001-08:002018-01-14T23:14:42.406-08:00知足是一種智慧,知止是一種境界<div id="fb-root"></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">知足不辱,知止不殆</span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">知足是“已經滿足於”所得,而知止,則是“獲取過程中”主動放棄。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">知足常足,終身不辱<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">知足,說的是要有容易滿足之心,不要一味索求、貪得無厭。</span></strong><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">《紅樓夢》中“智通寺”有一副有名的對聯可謂震懾人心:“身後有餘忘縮手,眼前無路想回頭”。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">“甚愛必大費,多藏必厚亡”,做人不知收斂,得寸進尺,一味爭名逐利,凶險和災禍也會隨之降臨。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">知止的智慧,說的是要知道自己應該處於怎樣的位置,做好自己分內應為的事,並且不要做出超越自己本分的事情。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">身體和思想總要有一個在路上!</span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">兩個人,因為外在決定是否在一起,因為內在而決定在一起多久。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: "MS Gothic";">▷</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"> 越來越勤奮</span></strong><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: "MS Gothic";">▷</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"> 會早起</span></strong><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">杭州有個賣水果的人,擅長貯藏柑橘,經歷一整年也不潰爛,拿出它們的時候還是光彩鮮明的樣子,玉石一樣的質地,金燦燦的顏色。放到市場上,賣</span><span lang="EN-US">(</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">比別人的高出</span><span lang="EN-US">)</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">十倍的價錢。人們爭相購買他的柑橘。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: , serif;">上個星期天,我在逛街時遇到了一個熟人。</span><span lang="EN-US">10</span><span style="font-family: , serif;">年前,她開的影印店,正好在我家店的隔壁。</span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">“人生的意義不在於拿一副好牌,而在於打好一副壞牌”。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">一無悉數並不成怕,可駭的是你接管近況。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">無論優劣,不要辜負這生平,這是底線。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">心中有風景。</span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">眼裡無是非。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">有書真富貴。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">無事小神仙。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">先生頓悟,慶幸當時的一個疏忽,要不就害了一家好人了啊。</span></strong><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<hr>智股網-知識就是力量http://www.blogger.com/profile/11093359592388146038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7917549547631597439.post-46339303996939562522018-01-04T23:21:00.002-08:002018-01-04T23:27:04.962-08:00你選擇的 都是人生的必經之路<div id="fb-root"></div>
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<a name='more'></a><strong>這時候,我們多麼期待有一個人能聽自己訴說,幫忙看清楚自己的處境,替自己做出正確的選擇。</strong><br />
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">即使在人生的某一個時刻,我們特別想要一個正確的答案來指引自己,但是卻可能從來沒有人知道正確的答案。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">我們每個人只是在用不同的方式,尋找著自己的答案。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif; font-size: 14pt;">在人生的許多時刻,每個人都在尋找自己的答案<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">或許,在人生的許多時候,每個人都在不知不覺地尋找自己的答案。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">只是,要走過許多路才會明白,正是那些本來覺得沒有意義的路,幫你連接起了一個有意義的未來。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif; font-size: 14pt;">無論你多麼想擺脫羈絆,總有人跟你緊密相連<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">為了找到自己要走的路,我們常常會奮力掙脫現實的許多羈絆</span></strong><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">每一個人的成長過程,多少有點兒像浩介,一邊用力掙脫羈絆,另一邊又會找回這些羈絆。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">自由就是枷鎖,羈絆反而是有意義的自由。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">無論你是選擇順從羈絆,還是選擇想擺脫羈絆,只要你努力去做點什麼,在這些緊密相連的關係裡,你總會找到自己的路。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif; font-size: 14pt;">唯有跟著內心的聲音,才能看清自己的人生地圖<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">每個人羈絆的所在,正是他內心的聲音,是那些他或許一直都知道的,卻從來不敢或者不願意去嘗試的決定。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">當這些內心的羈絆被看見的時候,順著這些聲音的指引,就能一步步探索出自己的人生地圖。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: , serif;">人生就是一個用經歷來尋找答案的過程,你總要走過一些路,才能看清你現在走的路,才能找到你將要走下去的路。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<span style="font-family: , serif;">中年如茶,茶香自品,中年如水,靜水深流。</span></div>
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<a name='more'></a><span style="font-size: large;">但是,當我們走過高山和河流,嚐遍人生五味,猛然發現,平平淡淡才是真。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
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<a name='more'></a><span style="font-size: large;">很多時候,道理是道理,行動是行動。能為者,必懂其理也,而知其理者,卻未必能行之。</span><br />
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">歲月如書,時間是藥,教會我們許多無字的真理,治愈我們許多精神的頑疾,讓我們身心俱安。於是,我們逐漸的學會了寬容。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">寬容潤滑了彼此的關係,消除了彼此的隔閡,掃清了彼此的顧忌,增進了彼此的了解。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></strong></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">寬容是一縷陽光,</span></strong><span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">能照亮人們心中的黑暗;寬容是一提清水,能抹去人們滿腔的憤怒。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">學會放下,懂得寬容。人就這麼一生,只有笑看人生,才能擁有海闊天空的心胸。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></strong></div>
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<span style="font-family: , serif;">時間管理的一個大敵就是拖延症,很多人深受拖延困擾。明明知道什麼事情是重要的,可就是偏偏不願意行動。</span></div>
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<b><span lang="EN-US">1</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">、比“完美”差一點點</span></b><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">人,會不會被人看不起呢?</span></strong></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">答案是肯定的,而且,大部分的人,都曾經被人看不起過,只是,有的人,懂得臥薪嘗膽,東山再起,而有的人,卻被打擊得灰心喪氣,從此一蹶不起,失去了人生的信念和對未來美好生活的憧憬,變成了意志消沉的人,這樣的人,最後,真的是要被人看不起了。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">首先,因為自己相貌原因,被人看不起。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">有的人,因為相貌的原因,會被人看不起。人,並不是人人都是天生的帥哥靚妹,有的人,因為相貌的原因,往往,會被人看不起。因為相貌的原因,被人看不起,是一種十分不好的歧視,而受歧視的人,往往會比較自卑,失去了對美好生活的追求。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">但是,我們常說:</span><strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">人不可貌相,海水不可斗量</span></strong><span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,當自己因為身材,或者容顏過於普通而別人看不起的時候,</span><strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">我們不妨學得“傻”一點,自嘲自己“我很醜,可是我很溫柔”,然後,埋下頭來,努力改變自己,用自己的勤奮追尋學術,或者藝術才能,當你在某個領域成為專家的時候,那時,即使你只是一個普普通通的醜小鴨,但在眾人眼中,儼然,你已經是白天鵝了。</span></strong><span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">這樣的事件,藝術界或者商業界,已經有無數鮮活的案例我們可以查詢。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">其次,因為自己智商不足,而被人看不起。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">所以,這時候,往往會有一些人,會對你的智商進行有意無意的詆毀,</span><strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">這時候,我們不如“傻”一點,笑著說:是啊,我很笨,笨到家了。然後,低下頭來,用“笨年先飛早入林”的決心和毅力,攻克學習問題,挖掘自己的工作亮點</span></strong><span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,慢慢的,你就會發現,其實,“笨到家”也是一種能力,因為“笨”,所以自己花費了許多時間,而到了最後,你卻“笨”成了專家,早就起飛入林了,而嘲笑你的人,往往自以為是,早已經折翅在原地了。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">第三,因為自己落魄,而被人看不起。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">每一個人的人生都不可能永遠一帆風順,有時候,我們會陷入落魄的境地,會被人看不起。這時候,你一把鼻涕一把眼淚的哭訴,往往只能換來別人的嘲笑和更加地看不起。這時候,我們不如沉默一點,</span><strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">我們不妨“傻”一點,扔掉自己的面子,收起自己的西裝或者旗袍,從卑微的事情做起,從最底層的工作做起,慢慢地,一步一個腳印地從小事做起。</span></strong><span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">當我們重新擁有了一定的資本,重新獲得了一定的機遇,我們就要懂得,東山再起。當你成功的那一天,所有的沉默,所有的“傻乎乎”,都會成為你成功的光環。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">人,不要怕被人看不起,人,最怕被人看不起後,爬不起了。</span></strong><span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">所以,當我們被人看不起的時候,讓我們改變方式方法,讓我們故意“傻”一點,讓我們故意“笨”一點,</span><strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">其實,這樣的“笨”,這樣是“傻”,只是一種大智若愚的智者表現;其實,這樣的“笨”,這樣的“傻”,</span></strong><span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">只是我們在努力掙扎和成長過程中的一雙</span><strong><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">隱形的翅膀</span></strong><span style="font-family: "新細明體",serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,當我們昂首飛進成功的殿堂的時候,一切的誤解和偏見,都將成為過眼雲煙,灰飛煙滅了。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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